This blog post is written for blokes... Most guys don't feel beautiful. As a result they seek it in others. It's a big mistake.
Most guys take the beauty out of everything they do. They turn it into a competition in which there's a winner who get's the trophy and there's losers who are unlucky. Even dating can become competitive for blokes. Mainly because they don't feel beautiful inside.
You can't buy enough Gucci suits or fancy cars to feel beautiful. The feeling of owning something feels beautiful for a while, but if you don't already feel beautiful, the lustre soon wears off. 
Beauty is perception. Everybody is beautiful inside. If a guy doesn't feel beautiful inside he either tries to capture a partner who is his definition of beautiful and attach himself to her, or, he gives up on beauty altogether. Then life becomes awful ... busy.
If a bloke wants to find and hold a great relationship with someone special, he has to feel beautiful already. And recover that lost feeling if ever it goes away. That's inner power. Feeling beautiful.. and I know, most blokes struggle with that word but, hey, I say, get over it fellas... time to evolve.
 

Be Inspired Today

08/12/2011

 
We're on this blog to be inspired and to bring inspiration to those we love and care for. So, here's some amazing news from Nepal where three incredible Aussie women set up Children's refuge, school and hospice. After so many years they've now got land and volunteers continue to go to Kathmandu to help out.. Just magnificent what they've done, throwing in their Aussie professions and committing themselves to a purpose greater than themselves. It's a story beyond words.

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Draws no sharp distinction
Between their work and their play,
Their labour and their leisure,
Their mind and their body
Their education and their recreation.
They hardly know which is which.
They simple pursue their vision
Of excellence
Through whatever
They are doing and leaves
Others to determine
Whether they are working or playing.
To themselves, it always seems to be
That they are doing both.
 
 
I'd love to share with you a fantastic recipe I learned from a Nepalese Monk... Would you love to try it tonight?

Before you get in the door tonight you'll need to get a few things from the supermarket... I'll list them later
First between work and home you need to stop and take a breather... preferably not a cigarette or a beer or coffee or anything for that matter
Simply on the way home from work you need to STOP.
 

Your True Nature

08/11/2011

 
I think it's easy to mix the idea of our personality with our true nature and therefore become all external in our search for happiness in life.
To be clear, Soul comes from our True Nature.... all the rest , our beliefs, emotions and stuff is personality.
Our personality makes others happy. Soul makes us happy. 
Therefore personality sells products, builds business and makes romance.. Soul just inspires, loves and does what it does.
Our True Nature is not complicated. 
Personality is:
Our beliefs, our emotions, our religions, our ambitions, our motivations for pleasure, and getting things right cause personality.. hence, at its absolute most simple, personality is extremely complex. Just try changing it!
Our True Nature on the other hand doesn't change. 
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Our True Nature has the Following Ingredients:

It doesn't separate between self and other and therefore the more we love it, the more we love other people.
It doesn't need or want and therefore it doesn't motivate us to seek pleasure, avoid pain, be right, or avoid wrong.
It doesn't walk to the beat of the Good and Evil model.. It just lives inspires us to live on our purpose.
It is both masculine and feminine.. Neither nurturing or destructive forces distract it

So how do we get to know our True Nature

 
 
If ever life starts to get you down, or you think it's handsome to wear a frown ... remember this... always look on the bright side of life.. a Youtube video for your files..
 

Life in a Day...

01/11/2011

 
Life in a Day Movie Trailer .. Are you Ready for Inspiration...?
 
 
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Did you hear the song "what do I have to do to make you love me?"
I heard it. I heard it from the age of three. I heard it over and over and over. I actually sang it every morning, noon and night. 
"what do I have to do to make you love me?"
I tried damn hard too.. I danced, I was nice, I went wild...I performed, shut up, dug holes, washed cars, bought clothes, made money, licked and kissed and rowed a boat... "what do I have to do to make you love me?" ... and as it turns out ... a lot.
My parents, school teachers, priests, self help gurus, yoga teachers and girlfriends listed the list... I jumped through hoops, did amazing things, and for a guy with dyslexia and the IQ of a peanut, achieved amazing things. Still it wasn't enough, I still sang that song, "what do I have to do to make you love me?" There was always another mountain, another judgement, another religions a beautiful woman or a client saying "jump through this ring of fire and I'll love you more" ... desperate to win, I did, I jumped. Again, and again and again...