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Work is sacred.

Work is giving yourself. It’s creative self-expression. It’s opening your heart and providing value to others. It’s exchanging a part of yourself with someone else. It’s a possibility for you to make a difference in the world.

Seeing work as just something to do to get by is like slapping yourself in the face.

Here’s why I just can’t slap myself anymore:

I don’t want to spend one third of my life living out of a sense of drudgery.
I don’t want to rent out my body and mind for five of seven days of the week.
I don’t want to spend every day counting down the minutes to lunch, then counting again to five o’clock.

But much, much, much more than that, I don’t want to confine myself to choosing work that isn’t meaningful and doesn’t matter to me.

And that’s really the biggest problem with seeing work as menial labor. By defining work as such, you incarcerate yourself in a narrow field of possibilities of what work could be. Yes, work can be tedious. Doing your taxes, filing receipts, stapling, responding to email, and doing repetitive tasks can be pretty damn boring. There’s no way to trick yourself into believing otherwise. (Non-resistance to the tedium, however, can make it a lot less painful.) But despite the tedium, work can be much more than that. The work you do can be the gift of what you leave behind on this earth when you’re gone. It can be the difference you make in other peoples lives.

Something different.

When you expand your definition of what work is to a mutually beneficial exchange of value, it becomes more of a blessing and an opportunity.

This is the way I’ve started to think about work; I ask myself, “With the work you do today, how can you create the biggest positive impact in other people’s lives, while fulfilling your own dreams at the same time?”

And if I have work to do that is truly boring (like figuring out how much taxes I owe) I ask myself, “I know this work isn’t what I’d absolutely love to do, but since it must be done, by not resisting it, can I make it less painful?”

I also have to be careful to distinguish between work that must be done (like taxes) and things that seem required, but really aren’t. For example, it might be a good idea for me to spend some time every day networking, but if it doesn’t feel authentic, it would be a waste of time. If I really felt like creating, rather than connecting, I should honor that feeling. When I express myself authentically, I naturally have a greater impact then when I force myself to do something because I think it would be a good idea.

When you start to see work as play, as giving yourself to the world, as being an agent of change, you completely shatter the perception of work as a burden.

Because that’s where all this seeking to escape from work comes from (which is really what the 4HWW is about). Whether it be counting down the days to your yearly two week vacation, setting up a four hour workweek or creating passive income; whether it be the desire to retire early, win the lottery or strike it rich, it’s all in the effort to escape from the obligation of spending your life in a state of endless resistance to doing chores. It’s like we’re six years old again, fighting with mom about cleaning up all the stuff we’ve crammed under our bed. Not much has changed, huh?

But when work becomes something reverent to you, you no longer to seek escape from it. Besides, imagine if you really did find that elusive escape. Would it really solve all your problems? Sure, you’d have a lot of free time, but is that really what you’re looking for? Just free time?

I think it’s something more than that. I think it’s the lack of purpose, the lack of depth in our work that leads us to chase ideas like a four hour workweek and autopilot income.

Guess what?

No amount of freedom of time will quench your desire to make a difference, to live with purpose.

As Rolf Potts represents in his awesome book, Vagabonding, you can only live so long sipping martinis on a beach. Sooner or later, you’ll be bored. You’ll want to actually do something that matters.

Despite all the head-drilling society does to make you think work equates slavery, there are many possibilities for work to be a joy.

One of those options is The Zero Hour Workweek — a guide to getting paid to be who you are.

(Note: I did learn a lot from The Four Hour Workweek. I think Tim has some great ideas, like mini retirements, following a low information diet, etc. I also think he did an awesome job pointing out the stupidity of “work for work’s sake.” However, I do think the central idea of the achievement of a four hour workweek solving all of your problems is misleading. Tim defines work as something you really despise, and I just think that’s confusing things more, rather than bringing clarity to the situation. I guess it’s all about semantics, though, right? As Clinton said during the Monica Lewinski case, “Please define sexual relations.”)

 
 
What are you waiting for? Are you waiting for the weather to be better? It won't happen. Are you waiting for the perfect partner? It won't happen. Are you waiting until all your troubles go away? It won't happen. Are you waiting for your life to be simplified? It will never happen.

One time I was sitting in Zen for three solid weeks in the forest. My teacher was a grumpy hairy unwashed bastard who always fell asleep meditating and would forget to ring the break bell. We'd wake him with coughs. Shit it hurt sitting like that.

Anyway, while sitting in Zen I really did reach enlightenment. Afterward I did a poo and it was terrible. So much for enlightenment being a solution to the downside of life.

So, for three weeks in this Zen retreat I was in nirvana or somewhere. Then, at the end, when we were allowed to speak for the first time in three bloody weeks, I said to the bastard Zen master "mother .. Fu....er I am so detached.

He responded "your attachment to your detachment is now your biggest problem"!shit... Back to fish and chips for dinner.

At that time I gave up trying to be something, do something and get something. It was the first time in my life I actually realised that I had a superiorority complex. I mean I thought I was god's gift to humanity. I wasn't

Then I began to regret that I'd spent so much of my life trying. I mean, emulating, duplicating, imitating, contemplating, instead of celebrating.

That was the day I remember. Because that day was the day I stopped waiting for something to get better in order to be happier.

 
 
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In 2007 I was flown to Japan for a two hour meeting. The client needed help, just one idea. We worked for an hour, got the idea, i took the plane home to Sydney, and he made $25,000,000 in the next three years. 

In 2011 I worked with a composer. He had an international film score to create for one of Hollywood's biggest movies. He was blocked. Choked and needed urgent help to regain his inspiration within 24 hours or his multi million dollar contract and reputation would be in tatters. It took an hour to find the block, 30 minutes to clear it, and from that moment, I left him to do his thing. 90 Minutes work for a multi million dollar result.

In 2012 the PA of a woman who cannot be named called. There was a massive bust up between her and her mate and she was going on stage in three days to perform in front of a massive live audience. Nothing had worked, I had just 30 minutes to find the root of the problem, come up with a solution, one single idea, and we did it. She went on stage and performed her new album perfectly. 

In 1986, my ex wife left and took our three kids overseas. It took me three years to come up with just one idea about dealing with the situation. When I did eventually work it out, I discovered that the idea could have been found 10 seconds after they left. I was just too proud to discover it.

I've discovered that every human being on earth has a massive range of ideas. They are all brilliant ideas, some ideas however cost money we don't have, or requires the whole competitive market currently serving that need to fall asleep for a year or two so the new idea can take it's mantle. Everyone has enough ideas to build five business' tomorrow. The value of those ideas however, is in selecting which idea and when to apply it.

When a client presents me with a problem I usually have an idea in few minutes. It's not that I'm smarter than my clients because usually they say "Oh, I thought of that months ago but ...... " and that's the value of an idea. The value of an idea comes in knowing "HOW" to do it... Too much time is often spent on searching for new ideas and not enough is spent on knowing how. That's what I do... I show people HOW to do the idea they've probably had in the back of their mind for years.

Inspirations come in pictures. That's an amazing gift for anyone to get... an Inspirational idea. The key then is being humble and brave enough to ask the right person "HOW."

 

Bucket List 2012

11/12/2011

 
What's on your bucket list for 2012? Now is the time, pre New Year to get out that dusty old VIP sheet and start setting some personal, family, company and relationship bucket lists... for a couple, make sure at least 30 - 35% of the things on the list are the same for both of you.. no more, no less. That's what'll keep the fire alight. Here's a few ideas 10 great treks to do in the world .... http://www.lonelyplanet.com/australia/tasmania/travel-tips-and-articles/76228