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THE NATURE OF LOVE
We are connected to the earth and the earth is connected to us.
The Spirit of Nature
Part 1. Earth Stillness
Stillness
➢ A Quick Course in Stillness
➢ Finding Stillness
➢ Step 1. Dead stillness
➢ Step 2. Observation
➢ Step 3. Real expectations
➢ Step 4. Mind control
➢ Love
➢ Step 5. See with your heart
➢ Step 5. See with your heart (cont'd)
➢ Step 6. Inner sight
➢ Step 6. Inner sight (cont'd)
➢ Step 7. Act on your inspiration
➢ Step 7. Act on your inspiration (cont'd)
➢ Step 8. Follow nature’s guidance
➢ Step 9. A purpose greater than self
➢ Step10. Fall in love again and again
➢ Step 11. Overcome obstacles
➢ Hints and Tips for Stillness
Stillness - reconnection to nature is environmental.
➢ The emptiness of connection to nature.
➢ Really immerse yourself in nature.
➢ Participate in nature.
➢ Find balance.
➢ You need a space.
➢ See order in chaos.
➢ Fill your mind with a single focus.
Learn to be empty.
➢ Listen.
➢ Avoid medicines, drugs and alcohol.
➢ Don't try! Learn to be still.
➢ Learn how to do nothing.
➢ Fall in love with life itself.
➢ Reconnect with nature.
➢ Be fully present.
➢ Find stillness in the morning.
➢ Rest spaces.
➢ Reconnect with nature.
➢ Walker’s Wisdom
Water Romance
The Nature of Romance
➢ Water
➢ A Perfect Model for Everyday Romance
➢ On romantic occasions we’re filled with gratitude.
➢ On romantic occasions your beloved is more important than you.
➢ On romantic occasions you act with kindness.
➢ On romantic occasions you turn up.
➢ On romantic occasions there’s certainty.
➢ On romantic occasions you plan ahead.
➢ On romantic occasions you certainly don’t want to change your lover.
➢ On romantic occasions you are vulnerable.
➢ On romantic occasions you have the deepest respect.
➢ On romantic occasions all things are simple.
➢ On romantic occasions you really understand your partner.
➢ On romantic occasions respect differences.
➢ On romantic occasions you really understand your partner’s true nature.
➢ Water people like to nurture.
➢ Earth people like to be real.
➢ Fire people like change.
➢ Air people like diversity and connections.
➢ Ether people like using their imagination.
➢ On romantic occasions you create a romantic space for those you love.
➢ On romantic occasions you focus on higher emotions.
The Ocean
➢ Beauty
➢ Nature
➢ Sunshine
➢ Diversity
➢ Rain
➢ Hints and Tips for Romance
➢ Always look on the positive side.
➢ Romance is the art of appreciation.
➢ Romance is a way of life.
➢ Confuse yourself – act intuitively.
➢ Romance is not limited to your lover.
➢ Stay humble to stay romantic.
➢ Create thankfulness rituals.
➢ Live in the moment – make you relationship grow.
➢ Turn up fresh each day.
➢ Become flexible, forget being right.
➢ Let go of your past to be in love in the moment.
➢ Empower each other. You are equal in opportunity not equal in capability.
➢ Give compliments - this is romance.
➢ Romance is also a thought.
➢ Romantic alone.
➢ See support and challenge in your relationship as healthy.
➢ Romance comes from contentment.
➢ Thankfulness comes from the lack of desire.
➢ Respect for nature is respect for self and other.
➢ Romance at home means contribution to the world.
➢ Acknowledge the spiritual side.
➢ Be thankful for now.
➢ Seek balance - that's authentic romance.
➢ Keep your life simple - Romantic headspace.
➢ Try to live with an open heart.
➢ Romance is giving.
➢ Romance means that you worship God within your beloved.
➢ Remember how it was.
➢ The seduction never ends.
➢ Proactive.
➢ Keep up the standards.
➢ It’s the real you.
➢ Think with your heart.
➢ In your romance be honest.
➢ Avoid blame at all cost.
➢ Make Valentines 24/7.
➢ Spend time in nature.
➢ Prioritise your relationship.
➢ Be authentic with your partner, this is very romantic.
➢ Your inner environment.
➢ Speak with love.
➢ An attitude of gratitude.
➢ Romance is expansive.
➢ Find you inner home.
➢ Home space for love.
➢ Keep it clean.
➢ Turn up at home.
➢ Sort out your work-life.
➢ A romantic home create zones.
➢ Be present.
➢ Affirm love.
➢ Dress for romance.
➢ Things have a voice.
➢ Consider carefully the energy of gifts.
➢ Romance your beloved - beware of false Gods.
➢ Be discerning about home help.
➢ Protect your relationship.
➢ Filter the noise.
➢ Speak the truth of love in your life.
➢ Bring home good energy.
➢ Beware of pollution.
➢ Begin the day with romance.
➢ Learn to smile even when you are alone.
➢ Rituals.
➢ Create an altar in your home.
➢ A romantic bed.
➢ Romance extends to food.
➢ Draw boundary.
➢ Turn off the technology – be human.
➢ Silence in the home.
➢ Protect your relationship. Prioritise your relationship.
➢ Honour your partner.
➢ Devotion is the first priority of romance.
➢ Positive Consciousness – nothing to change except self.
➢ No Compromise – deal with your stress.
➢ The right Balance.
➢ Prepare for Sleep.
➢ Stay young at heart.
➢ Romance and stress do not mix.
➢ Support and challenge.
➢ Valentines day – Everyday.
➢ Loving gifts. Small gifts.
➢ Romantic love letters - it's the small things that count.
➢ The four key ingredients that bring romance into your home:
➢ Kindness is a gentle attitude, expressed in the way you think, speak and act.
➢ Gentleness.
➢ Care is compassion.
➢ Contentment is the true intention of love’s existence.
➢ Romance yourself.
Part 3. Air Self Love
Self Love - Grow through stress
➢ Drought
➢ Disease
➢ Rock
➢ Calm
➢ Springtime
➢ Giant Trees
➢ Thunder
➢ Good Ground – Wise Choices
Hints and Tips for Managing Stress
➢ Be real.
➢ Heal in nature.
➢ Bring nature home.
➢ Follow nature’s law.
➢ Respect diversity.
➢ Let nature guide you.
➢ Spring every day.
➢ See yourself connected to everything.
➢ Forget time.
Self Love - Mind control
➢ Evolution
➢ Wind
➢ Balance
➢ Earth – Build on rock
➢ Honesty
➢ Responsibility
➢ Gardens
➢ Interconnectedness
➢ Tsunami
➢ Balanced Seasons
Hints and Tips for Mind Control
➢ Empowerment.
➢ More Love.
➢ Reduce emotional reaction.
➢ More self-confidence.
➢ Unlearn emotional judgments - peace of mind.
➢ More Harmony.
➢ Change your mind.
➢ We can’t love too much.
➢ There are many different ways to express your love.
➢ Adapt your thoughts.
➢ Eliminate judgments, unlearn.
Higher emotions – peace of mind.
➢ Lower emotions cause more stress.
➢ The winds of change.
➢ Let nature guide your love.
➢ Reconnect beyond intellect.
➢ Play in nature.
➢ Be Natural.
➢ We are the environment we create.
➢ See order in the chaos. Where is God not?
➢ Open your heart, balance your mind.
Air - Self Love - Turning up
➢ Listening
➢ Bugs
➢ Walker’s Wisdoms
➢ Hints and Tips for Turning Up
➢ Change your hat.
➢ Don’t compensate.
➢ Watch the warning signs.
➢ Be honest with yourself.
➢ Be discerning where you spend your energy.
➢ Let go the past.
➢ Find compassion without attachment.
➢ Beware of Emotional transference.
➢ See the world through a balanced perspective.
Deal with circumstances honestly.
➢ Don’t give advice unless you are asked for it.
➢ To turn up be humble.
➢ Do one thing at a time.
➢ Develop peace of mind.
➢ Trust a higher order.
➢ Do what you love in life.
➢ Associate with people who turn up.
➢ To turn up - avoid desperation.
➢ Face challenge consciously.
➢ To turn up stay flexible – choose your thoughts.
➢ Keep your sense of perspective.
➢ Stop wanting to change yourself and others.
➢ Unlearn your judgments.
➢ Be spiritual.
➢ The power of human will.
➢ Focus on the positive.
Turning up means seeking beauty in everything.
➢ See the balance.
➢ Take your power back.
➢ Get present alone with yourself.
➢ Value the moment, the process, more than the result of what you do.
➢ Adapt.
➢ Avoid acting out fantasies.
➢ Turning up means blowing away the myths.
➢ To turn up deal with your stress.
➢ Give yourself to the circumstance mindfully.
Learn not to worry.
➢ Anxiety is another name for lack of self-trust.
➢ Know when its over.
➢ No blame – turning up means beyond blame.
➢ Own the two sides of compassion.
➢ Turning up means being brave.
➢ Sometimes turning up needs tough love.
➢ Honour diversity.
➢ Turning up is the fastest way to self love.
➢ Value reality more than fantasy.
➢ Make your commitments unconditional or not at all.
➢ Become present with small things, everything in nature is precious.
➢ Turning up means witnessing divine order.
Part 4. Fire Healing
Fire
➢ Regrowth
➢ Balance
➢ Evolution
➢ Interconnectedness
➢ Harmony
➢ True Nature
➢ Clouds
➢ Contentment
➢ Bamboo
➢ Decay
➢ Letting Go
Miracles
➢ Recycling Systems
➢ Compartmentalise.
➢ Forget being right.
➢ Real healing - no reaction.
➢ Don’t delay processing your stuff.
➢ Turn off the TV.
Real healing - go bush.
➢ Don’t keep banging the same old drum.
➢ Real healing - Break old patterns.
➢ Beware the intellect.
➢ Love is cumulative.
➢ Be happy with what you’ve got or you’ll lose it.
➢ Real healing - Look within.
➢ Nature is interconnected, nothing is missing, it just changes in form.
➢ Real healing - needs appreciation.
➢ We get what we need, more than what we want.
People become as you treat them.
➢ Real healing - Love has no expectations.
➢ Put your whole heart into it.
➢ Don’t act on emotion; feel it thoroughly.
➢ Honestly grow your love.
➢ Real healing - Be mindful.
Body Mind
➢ Migraine.
➢ Multiple Sclerosis MS.
➢ Nervous Breakdown.
➢ Fluid retention.
➢ Breast problems - Cancer.
➢ Breasts Large.
➢ Breasts Small.
➢ Bulimia.
➢ Diabetes.
➢ Bronchitis.
➢ Glandular fever.
➢ Duodenal ulcers.
➢ Acne.
➢ Parkinson’s disease.
➢ Immune system.
➢ Indigestion.
➢ Asthma.
➢ Ankles.
➢ I.B.S.
➢ Bloating.
➢ Blood.
➢ Gall stones - Judgments, bitterness.
➢ Gout.
➢ Headache.
➢ Hepatitis.
➢ Hypoglycemia.
➢ Heart attack.
➢ Hypertension.
➢ Impotence (Erectile insufficiency, libido).
➢ Infertility.
➢ Inflammation.
➢ Insomnia.
➢ Osteoporosis.
➢ Paget’s disease.
➢ Pineal gland.
➢ Large posterior.
➢ Prostate.
➢ Psoriasis.
➢ R.S.I.
➢ Sinus.
➢ Shingles.
Part 5. Ether V.I.P. - Vision, Inspiration, Purpose
V.I.P. - Viewpoint
➢ Branches
➢ Here are some simple examples of choices we make:
➢ You could choose to have an affair.
➢ You could choose to follow your heart.
➢ You could choose to maintain a relationship that is corrupted.
➢ You could choose to enter a relationship.
➢ You could choose to stay in a job you dislike.
➢ You could choose to eat for happiness.
➢ You could choose to turn left or turn right.
➢ You could choose to compromise.
➢ You could choose to follow a religion.
➢ You could choose to follow your dreams.
➢ You could choose to sleep with strangers.
➢ You could choose to laugh.
➢ You could choose to watch TV.
➢ You could choose people or profit as a priority in business.
➢ You could choose to change your sex.
➢ You could choose violence.
➢ You could choose to accept abuse.
➢ An Ant’s Perspective
Time and Space
➢ Seasons
➢ Intuition
➢ Listening
➢ Destiny
➢ Real
➢ Simplicity
➢ Honesty
➢ Autumn
➢ Blossom
➢ Sustainability
➢ Order in the Chaos
Purpose
➢ A Personal Vision Quest
➢ A Personal Vision Quest - Phase one
➢ Preparation.
➢ A Personal Vision Quest - Phase two
➢ The 21 days of inner listening.
➢ A Personal Vision Quest - Phase three
➢ Vision quest - Together again.
➢ A Personal Vision Quest - Phase four
➢ The details.
➢ Getting Past Fantasies and Delusions