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Evolveyabastard
Better Relationships Book
Love, the Greatest gift. Cherish it!
Learn Emotional Vulnerability
➢ My partner refuses to change. She’s so stuck. I have been trying to convince her to come with me to some yoga retreats or self help workshops, but she just raises her eyebrows and tells me to “get a life”. I think I need to leave her because she is not evolving, is this true?
Dream Matching
➢ I am about to be married. Can you give us some advice as to how to avoid the -year itch?
Soften Your Mind
➢ My family is very religious but my partner isn’t. There is always a tension that exists between us around this. I don’t know what to do. On the one hand he is far more important to me than my family, yet, my religion is important to me. I am not a strict religious person but I do like to have connections to my church. Is there a compromise that will work for us?
➢ I want more love in my life. I work hard, stay fit, eat quite well and do the right thing by people. I am a business leader and have to deal with a lot of disturbance. I feel tired from all the challenge. What can I do?
Connect to the Earth
➢ My partner and I are professional people; we live in a big city and have executive offices in great companies. We have been married for years but we are growing apart. Any ideas?
They Already Know
➢ I cheated on my partner. I still do from time to time. I am not guilty about it but feel that this might be a sign that my relationship is over. Should I tell my wife?
Quality control
➢ Does it have to be that the best moment, the most delicious moment of a relationship is that moment when we first fall in love? My experience has been that when I look back on my relationships they were brilliant at first and quickly went downhill from there.
Stay Thankful. What You Appreciate Grows
➢ Do you have any great ideas for Valentine’s Day? I’ve exhausted all my ideas and created an expectation that something special is going to happen.
Love Is Cumulative
➢ My partner and I seem to go from vava vroom, to disaster in a matter of hours. From blissful love to almost hate. How do we stop this see saw?
There Are No Half Stories
➢ My Partner and I have been together for years but she wants more. Her body clock is ticking, it’s either marry or finish. How do I make the call on this? For me right now I am really not ready to make the commitment but I really love her.
There’s No Excuse for Abuse
➢ I am so stressed at work. I come home completely buggered. I know this is affecting my relationship. I explained the pressure I am under to my partner but she just doesn’t accept it. What to do?
Thankfulness and Quality Control
➢ My partner and I want to bring spice back into our relationship. We think we’re a little burned out. Can you give us some ideas?
Spirituality
➢ What has Spirituality got to do with me? All I want is a good woman in my life. I personally don’t see the relevance in all this God talk.
The Illusion of Forgiveness
➢ My partner lied to me. How do I forgive them? It seems until I forgive them, I can’t get over it and am blocking my love for them.
Everyday Rituals
➢ We are thinking of renewing our vows for our love. Can you share some ceremonial ways for us to honour our relationship?
Honour a New Beginning
➢ My girlfriend and I are moving in together. We just can’t agree on so many things, which I think you’ll say are trivial. But for us, they are really important. She has some heirlooms from her auntie and I hate them. I have some paintings she hates but I am really attached to them. Any ideas?
Prioritise
➢ I bring my work home. I have no choice because I can’t get it all done in the time at the office. Is there a way of doing this that is healthy?
Children
➢ We’re having a baby. We’re having a baby! Any advice?
Love Without Boundaries
➢ I want to be a speaker like you and teach the world about love. I feel that when I do this, I will attract the relationship I deserve. What is your experience?
Emptiness
➢ My partner left me and she has the kids and most of the money. I am suicidal. I want to die. Help.
Holding the Space
➢ We’re a high profile couple. We’re in the press a lot and we are separate a lot of the time with our work. Most people in our industry have affairs and their marriages become public property - disasters. How do we avoid the norm?
Opportunity to Choose
➢ I’m stressed, and therefore depressed, and therefore not too healthy. Help...
An Attitude of Gratitude
➢ How can I be more romantic?
Sleep in Love
➢ I can’t sleep alone. I hate it. So, sometimes I choose my bed partner just for company. Any thoughts?
Choose Love Over Emotion
➢ I get so jealous. I get so jealous I could scream or tear her ears off. Help....
Free Love from Expectations
➢ How do I grow in Love?
Inner Spirit
➢ I am doing self-development courses. Is there any you recommend?
Evolve to Love
➢ Please describe a summary of what you teach people about love and relationship.
Experience the Levels of Love
What does it mean to evolve in love?
Falling in Love
➢ I want to fall in love. Describe how I can take charge of this part of my life.
Staying in Love
➢ What is the key to staying in love, making the honeymoon last forever?
➢ Vesica Pices. Pythagoras
Why am I single?
➢ Choices
➢ Fears
➢ Self Confidence
➢ Love and Relationships
➢ Fate
➢ No Compromise
➢ Life Goes in Phases
➢ I don’t want to be single...
➢ Letting Go
➢ Truth Versus Self-deception
Loneliness – Re-connecting to love
➢ How do I deal with loneliness?
➢ I have my ideas of who I want to meet. Is this how one goes about attracting the right person?
➢ Be the Love You Dream
Don’t Hold Back
➢ My heart has been broken, not once but twice. The idea of a third time is nearly unthinkable. So, I’m single. What to do?
➢ With everything else I have on my plate, if I get into a relationship, I am going to have another time consuming thing to do?
The Easy Road
➢ My girlfriend dumped me right when we were getting serious, and now she wants me back. We sleep together and really enjoy each other but I am really not feeling like I used to feel about her.
What You Judge You Attract
You say nobody can do to you more than you do to yourself? Does that mean I have to romance myself, take myself to dinner, have sex with myself, and marry myself? Seems a bit over the top.
Support and Challenge
➢ I lead a large organisation and I create a lot of freedom for people to express themselves. As a result there’s a lot of emotion. When I get home, the last thing I need is more emotional drama, hence I am single. Any thoughts?
Expectations
➢ I know what I want in my relationships. I have had enough experience with cruel women to know not to throw myself at just anyone. I want to be happy and find a woman who treats me well, loves me for who I am and takes responsibility for herself. Am I asking too much?
Contentment
➢ I am single, divorced and have a year old son. He lives with his mother and I suspect she poisons his mind with criticism of me. He doesn’t want to know me and I am distraught. My men’s group reveals there are a lot of men in this situation. What can I do?
Be Abundant
➢ How do I create the right space to meet the right person at the right time?
➢ If I meet someone that I like, what do I need to know about them to determine whether they are a potential partner or not?
Dreams
➢ I want a partner who merges their heart with mine, to become one. Is this possible?
Soul Mates
➢ I say I want a relationship, but do nothing about it. I am not good at flirting or seducing people off the street, I am so shy and embarrassed about online dating and speed dating, all my friends are married, and the women I meet at work are not my type. What do I do?
Watch the Holes in Your Net
➢ I am single and from time to time I become suicidal. I just want the pain to go away. What do I do in these times?
Sexual Energy
➢ I’m single and I want to know about sex. This is my frustration, I enjoy it and even if I’m single, I want it. What to do?
Acceptance
➢ I don’t like my ex, she’s unevolved and stupid, so I left her. Now I am ready for my next relationship, any hints?
Realistic Expectations
➢ I infatuate people all the time. I think they are marvellous, and then, wham, I get the real story. I am disappointed in relationships and therefore I am reluctant to enter a new one. What are your thoughts?
Honesty
My mother and father never fought. They were always happy. This is the relationship I want, but just can’t find. Can you help?
The Real You
➢ Body, Emotions, Intellect.
Your Elemental Lifestyle
➢ Finding Balance
➢ Managing your Life
➢ Finding Your Element
➢ Understanding the Elements
Going Back Or Moving On
➢ Going Back
➢ Make sure it is love and not fear for the future.
➢ No Rules
➢ Is This The Only Option?
➢ Is Your Memory Fading?
➢ Feeling Inadequate
➢ Easy
➢ Great Sex?
➢ Deep Love?
➢ They’ve Changed?
➢ Trust Broken?
➢ Brave?
➢ Promises?
➢ Going Back
Sacred Geometry
➢ Birth, Creation, Life
➢ Equality, Harmony, Respect
➢ Responsibility
➢ Sacred Space
➢ Loving Many
➢ Affairs
➢ Short-Term Lust, Long-Term Bust
All Love Is Sacred
➢ Single
➢ Intuition?
➢ Psychic Connections
➢ Beauty
➢ Healing
➢ Happiness
➢ Depression
Emotions
➢ Love is the Synthesis of All Emotion
➢ Love is the Synthesis of All Emotion
➢ Love Is the Synthesis of All Emotion
➢ Love Is the Synthesis of All Emotion
➢ Love That Can’t Die
➢ Love is Natural