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Better Relationships Book

Love, the Greatest gift. Cherish it! 
 
Learn Emotional Vulnerability   
➢    My partner refuses to change. She’s so stuck. I have been trying to convince her to come with me to some yoga retreats or self help workshops, but she just raises her eyebrows and tells me to “get a life”. I think I need to leave her because she is not evolving, is this true?
   
Dream Matching    
➢    I am about to be married. Can you give us some advice as to how to avoid the -year itch?    

Soften Your Mind   
➢    My family is very religious but my partner isn’t. There is always a tension that exists between us around this. I don’t know what to do. On the one hand he is far more important to me than my family, yet, my religion is important to me. I am not a strict religious person but I do like to have connections to my church. Is there a compromise that will work for us? 
 
➢    I want more love in my life. I work hard, stay fit, eat quite well and do the right thing by people. I am a business leader and have to deal with a lot of disturbance. I feel tired from all the challenge. What can I do?    
Connect to the Earth    

➢    My partner and I are professional people; we live in a big city and have executive offices in great companies. We have been married for  years but we are growing apart. Any ideas?   

They Already Know    
➢    I cheated on my partner. I still do from time to time. I am not guilty about it but feel that this might be a sign that my relationship is over. Should I tell my wife?   

Quality control
➢    Does it have to be that the best moment, the most delicious moment of a relationship is that moment when we first fall in love? My experience has been that when I look back on my relationships they were brilliant at first and quickly went downhill from there.    

Stay Thankful. What You Appreciate Grows  
➢    Do you have any great ideas for Valentine’s Day? I’ve exhausted all my ideas and created an expectation that something special is going to happen.   

Love Is Cumulative    
➢    My partner and I seem to go from vava vroom, to disaster in a matter of hours. From blissful love to almost hate. How do we stop this see saw?   

There Are No Half Stories    
➢    My Partner and I have been together for  years but she wants more. Her body clock is ticking, it’s either marry or finish. How do I make the call on this? For me right now I am really not ready to make the commitment but I really love her.   

There’s No Excuse for Abuse    
➢    I am so stressed at work. I come home completely buggered. I know this is affecting my relationship. I explained the pressure I am under to my partner but she just doesn’t accept it. What to do?
  
Thankfulness and Quality Control    
➢    My partner and I want to bring spice back into our relationship. We think we’re a little burned out. Can you give us some ideas?

Spirituality   
➢    What has Spirituality got to do with me? All I want is a good woman in my life. I personally don’t see the relevance in all this God talk.   

The Illusion of Forgiveness   
➢    My partner lied to me. How do I forgive them? It seems until I forgive them, I can’t get over it and am blocking my love for them.   

Everyday Rituals    
➢    We are thinking of renewing our vows for our love. Can you share some ceremonial ways for us to honour our relationship?    

Honour a New Beginning    
➢    My girlfriend and I are moving in together. We just can’t agree on so many things, which I think you’ll say are trivial. But for us, they are really important. She has some heirlooms from her auntie and I hate them. I have some paintings she hates but I am really attached to them. Any ideas?    

Prioritise    
➢    I bring my work home. I have no choice because I can’t get it all done in the time at the office. Is there a way of doing this that is healthy?
  
Children
➢    We’re having a baby. We’re having a baby! Any advice?    
   
Love Without Boundaries
➢    I want to be a speaker like you and teach the world about love. I feel that when I do this, I will attract the relationship I deserve. What is your experience?    
   
Emptiness    
➢    My partner left me and she has the kids and most of the money. I am suicidal. I want to die. Help.    
Holding the Space   

➢    We’re a high profile couple. We’re in the press a lot and we are separate a lot of the time with our work. Most people in our industry have affairs and their marriages become public property - disasters. How do we avoid the norm?   

Opportunity to Choose    
➢    I’m stressed, and therefore depressed, and therefore not too healthy. Help...    
An Attitude of Gratitude

➢    How can I be more romantic?    
   
Sleep in Love
➢    I can’t sleep alone. I hate it. So, sometimes I choose my bed partner just for company. Any thoughts?    
   
Choose Love Over Emotion    
➢    I get so jealous. I get so jealous I could scream or tear her ears off. Help....    

Free Love from Expectations    
➢    How do I grow in Love?  
 
Inner Spirit    
➢    I am doing self-development courses. Is there any you recommend?    

Evolve to Love    
➢    Please describe a summary of what you teach people about love and relationship.  
 
Experience the Levels of Love    
What does it mean to evolve in love?   

Falling in Love
➢    I want to fall in love. Describe how I can take charge of this part of my life.  
 
Staying in Love    
➢    What is the key to staying in love, making the honeymoon last forever?    
➢    Vesica Pices. Pythagoras    

Why am I single?    
➢    Choices    
➢    Fears    
➢    Self Confidence    
➢    Love and Relationships    
➢    Fate    
➢    No Compromise    
➢    Life Goes in Phases    
➢    I don’t want to be single...    
➢    Letting Go        
➢    Truth Versus Self-deception    

Loneliness – Re-connecting to love    
➢    How do I deal with loneliness?    
➢    I have my ideas of who I want to meet. Is this how one goes about attracting the right person?        
➢    Be the Love You Dream    
   
Don’t Hold Back    
➢    My heart has been broken, not once but twice. The idea of a third time is nearly unthinkable. So, I’m single. What to do?    
➢    With everything else I have on my plate, if I get into a relationship, I am going to have another time consuming thing to do?   

The Easy Road
➢    My girlfriend dumped me right when we were getting serious, and now she wants me back. We sleep together and really enjoy each other but I am really not feeling like I used to feel about her.    
   
What You Judge You Attract    
You say nobody can do to you more than you do to yourself? Does that mean I have to romance myself, take myself to dinner, have sex with myself, and marry myself? Seems a bit over the top.   

Support and Challenge    
➢    I lead a large organisation and I create a lot of freedom for people to express themselves. As a result there’s a lot of emotion. When I get home, the last thing I need is more emotional drama, hence I am single. Any thoughts?    

Expectations
➢    I know what I want in my relationships. I have had enough experience with cruel women to know not to throw myself at just anyone. I want to be happy and find a woman who treats me well, loves me for who I am and takes responsibility for herself. Am I asking too much?    
   
Contentment    
➢    I am single, divorced and have a  year old son. He lives with his mother and I suspect she poisons his mind with criticism of me. He doesn’t want to know me and I am distraught. My men’s group reveals there are a lot of men in this situation. What can I do?    

Be Abundant    
➢    How do I create the right space to meet the right person at the right time?    
➢    If I meet someone that I like, what do I need to know about them to determine whether they are a potential partner or not?   

Dreams    
➢    I want a partner who merges their heart with mine, to become one. Is this possible?   

Soul Mates    
➢    I say I want a relationship, but do nothing about it. I am not good at flirting or seducing people off the street, I am so shy and embarrassed about online dating and speed dating, all my friends are married, and the women I meet at work are not my type.  What do I do?    

Watch the Holes in Your Net    
➢    I am single and from time to time I become suicidal. I just want the pain to go away. What do I do in these times?    

Sexual Energy    
➢    I’m single and I want to know about sex. This is my frustration, I enjoy it and even if I’m single, I want it. What to do?   

Acceptance   
➢    I don’t like my ex, she’s unevolved and stupid, so I left her. Now I am ready for my next relationship, any hints? 
 
Realistic Expectations    
➢    I infatuate people all the time. I think they are marvellous, and then, wham, I get the real story. I am disappointed in relationships and therefore I am reluctant to enter a new one. What are your thoughts?   

Honesty
My mother and father never fought. They were always happy. This is the relationship I want, but just can’t find. Can you help?    

The Real You        
➢    Body, Emotions, Intellect.   

Your Elemental Lifestyle    
➢    Finding Balance    
➢    Managing your Life    
➢    Finding Your Element    
➢    Understanding the Elements   

Going Back Or Moving On    
➢    Going Back    
➢    Make sure it is love and not fear for the future.    
➢    No Rules    
➢    Is This The Only Option?    
➢    Is Your Memory Fading?    
➢    Feeling Inadequate    
➢    Easy    
➢    Great Sex?    
➢    Deep Love?    
➢    They’ve Changed?    
➢    Trust Broken?    
➢    Brave?    
➢    Promises?    
➢    Going Back   

Sacred Geometry    
➢    Birth, Creation, Life    
➢    Equality, Harmony, Respect    
➢    Responsibility    
➢    Sacred Space    
➢    Loving Many    
➢    Affairs    
➢    Short-Term Lust, Long-Term Bust   

All Love Is Sacred    
➢    Single    
➢    Intuition?    
➢    Psychic Connections    
➢    Beauty    
➢    Healing    
➢    Happiness    
➢    Depression   

Emotions    
➢    Love is the Synthesis of All Emotion    
➢    Love is the Synthesis of All Emotion    
➢    Love Is the Synthesis of All Emotion    
➢    Love Is the Synthesis of All Emotion    
➢    Love That Can’t Die    
➢    Love is Natural    



   


 
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